This may be one of the most important things about language learning you may ever read, so I’m going to be as blunt as I can:
“BAD WITH LANGUAGES” DOES NOT EXIST.
It just doesn’t.
What there is, however, is not having the one thing you need to get fluent in a language.
And that is…
No, it isn’t comic books…necessarily…although it can be!
It is finding a way to have fun with the languages in your life.
What you should be looking for in addition to books / programs etc. is a way to use your target language in your life in a way that you enjoy doing it.
Think about what you do for fun.
Think about the sort of ways you can have fun in your other languages.
There is a REASON a lot of endangered languages have to have programming to make them viable. Because if not for them, prospective learners would associate the languages only with classroom learning and nothing else!
And if you associate your language only with classroom learning, then you ARE going to burn out very quickly!
And this is why there are so many students who say “I’ve took (language commonly studied) for four years and I still can’t speak any of it”.
I can GUARANTEE you that if they had found a method towards applying that language in their life in a way that they would genuinely enjoy doing so, they would never say that.
This can include:
- Online videos of any variety
- Books (or any type)
And think about how many non-native English speakers you have met throughout your life who have spoken impressive English. Ask them about how they learned it. They will NOT answer “I took it for years in school” (although many of them do and it helps!), they will, GUARANTEED, say something like “I really liked British comedies” or “I had a Texan roommate”.
Back when I believed that I would never get fluent in another language as an adult (which I rate as one of the Top 5 most destructive beliefs of my life), I was in the Yiddish Farm summer program and realizing that the various songs, artistry and the like that I partook of would make my Yiddish better, bit-by-bit.
When I was in Poland and living with students in Spain, I genuinely felt more comfortable conversing in Castilian Spanish with them, surrounded by bottles and makeshift ping-pong tables, than I ever did in a classroom.
Even with languages that I still struggle with, such as Greenlandic and Russian, I came to put on very good accents and came off convincingly to many—by virtue of the fact that I had Greenlandic- and Russian-Language “programming” in my life!
And so one thing you should be doing is in addition to asking, “where can I study this language?” is “where can I have fun with this language?” And if you can’t answer that second question, you’ll give up and/or burn out!
I know because it has happened to me!
But let me be clear on this:
Don’t expect to get fluent with the “fun time” alone.
Well…I’ve done it, actually, but only with languages very close to ones I already knew. (As I did with Danish after Norwegian, and Bislama / Solomon Islands Pijin after Tok Pisin)
Think of it this way:
The various applications of the languages in your life are your chess pawns.
They will not win the game by themselves, but winning without them (and playing without them) is impossible.
And by extension, allow me to be clear on this also:
Don’t choose a language based on any supposed professional benefit it will bring you, choose a language based on recreational value to you.
I know, right? Sounds counter-intuitive, but when I hear someone say “I’m learning this language for an advantage at my job” or “I’m learning this language because so many people speak it” something like that, my heart tells me “chances are, unless you find some way to have fun with that language really soon, you’re going to burn out. Mark my words”.
I would say that the vast majority of failed language experiments didn’t take this into account.
I know, because I’ve done that with some other languages throughout the years.
But the good news is that for almost all learnable languages out there, there is a way to engage with them in a fun way using the method I listed above!
Not only that, but the methods will continue to grow as technology marches on!
So if you may be struggling to find almost anything fun to do in your target language…wait a bit, maybe even a few months or a year, even! You’d be surprised what’ll come out when you’re not looking…
Wrapping it up, so that I don’t cause any misunderstanding, I will say this:
There is no bad with languages. Period. There is only a misunderstanding that doesn’t take into account that fluency requires (1) dedication (2) perseverance (3) feeling stupid sometimes and, most importantly (4) being able to include each language in a fuzzy place in your life where you play with it rather than work with it.
So get playing!